{"id":4171,"date":"2021-08-10T12:00:08","date_gmt":"2021-08-10T10:00:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parleralbania.com\/site\/?p=4171"},"modified":"2021-08-10T12:00:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-10T10:00:09","slug":"per-nenat-qe-u-kerkojne-femijeve-ti-kryejne-nevojat-personale-ne-rruge-ne-nje-peme-a-cep-muri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parleralbania.com\/site\/per-nenat-qe-u-kerkojne-femijeve-ti-kryejne-nevojat-personale-ne-rruge-ne-nje-peme-a-cep-muri\/","title":{"rendered":"P\u00ebr n\u00ebnat q\u00eb u k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u2019i kryejn\u00eb nevojat personale n\u00eb rrug\u00eb, n\u00eb nj\u00eb pem\u00eb a cep muri"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Duke ecur n\u00eb rrug\u00eb, shpesh d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, q\u00eb u drejtohen n\u00ebnave p\u00ebr nevojat e tyre personale. N\u00ebnat pa u menduar, japin nj\u00eb zgjidhje praktike duke i treguar nj\u00eb pem\u00eb, cep muri, pra vende n\u00eb publik. F\u00ebmija i shqet\u00ebsuar v\u00ebzhgon vendet, q\u00eb n\u00ebna i ofron dhe nguron.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00ebna vazhdon t\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul\u00eb, madje edhe ironizon me shprehje zhvleft\u00ebsuese. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb bezdisur nga k\u00ebrkesa e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, p\u00ebrton t\u00eb kthehet n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe nuk i shkon nd\u00ebr mend, se me pak inkurajim, duke e pyetur, se a mund t\u00eb duroj\u00eb edhe pak, apo t\u00eb kthehen n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, f\u00ebmija mund t\u00eb qet\u00ebsohet dhe t\u00eb duroj\u00eb mbase edhe nj\u00eb or\u00eb tjet\u00ebr pa i prishur planet n\u00ebn\u00ebs. Por p\u00ebr \u00e7udi n\u00ebnat zgjedhin rrug\u00ebn e gjat\u00eb, duke shqet\u00ebsuar edhe veten, edhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gjithashtu k\u00ebto n\u00ebna veprojn\u00eb pa menduar se f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre i k\u00ebrkohet t\u00eb ekspozoj\u00eb n\u00eb publik \u201epasaport\u00ebn e par\u00eb\u201c q\u00eb tashm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb personale dhe nuk ekspozohet m\u00eb kudo. F\u00ebmija e pranon veten dhe bot\u00ebn n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet ndjesis\u00eb dhe fjal\u00ebs s\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebs dhe n\u00ebna i k\u00ebrkon nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb; i ka shkuar nd\u00ebrmend ndonj\u00eb n\u00ebne kur thot\u00eb ato fjal\u00ebt, q\u00eb i din\u00eb vet\u00eb ato, se \u00e7far\u00eb i provokon f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb saj dhe n\u00eb ve\u00e7anti djalit t\u00eb saj?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Natyrisht jo, sepse po ta dinte natyrisht nuk do t\u00eb vepronte n\u00eb at\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb. Por kjo mosdije nuk mjafton p\u00ebr t\u2019u justifikuar, sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb tregues i munges\u00ebs s\u00eb vet\u00ebkontrollit dhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb. Nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb reagoj\u00eb ashtu \u201esi\u00e7 i vjen\u201c. Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb mos dish t\u00eb duash, mos t\u00eb dish t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh, mos t\u00eb dish t\u00eb d\u00ebgjosh, t\u00eb mos dish t\u00eb thuash fjal\u00ebn e sakt\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e duhur, apo t\u00eb mos jesh, kur fizikisht je i pranish\u00ebm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Asnj\u00eb n\u00ebne nuk i shkon nd\u00ebr mend, n\u00eb \u00e7astet kur thot\u00eb k\u00ebto fjal\u00eb apo b\u00ebn k\u00ebto veprime, se po frenon rritjen dhe identifikimin si burr\u00eb, t\u00eb djalit t\u00eb saj. Ajo harron se pasaporta e par\u00eb e njeriut \u00ebsht\u00eb organi seksual. Jan\u00eb k\u00ebto sjellje t\u00eb pavet\u00ebdijshme t\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebs q\u00eb mbajn\u00eb gjall\u00eb disa veprime t\u00eb burrave si urinimi dhe defekimi n\u00eb natyr\u00eb, prekja e pavet\u00ebdijshme e organit sidomos n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb ngarkuara emocionale. Ato nuk e kuptojn\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e sjelljes s\u00eb tyre p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mosh\u00eb. Sa m\u00eb me respekt t\u00eb sillet n\u00ebna ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, aq m\u00eb respekt do t\u00eb ket\u00eb ai p\u00ebr veten dhe natyrisht edhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Duke ecur n\u00eb rrug\u00eb, shpesh d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, q\u00eb u drejtohen n\u00ebnave p\u00ebr nevojat e tyre personale. 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