{"id":5934,"date":"2021-08-26T13:55:04","date_gmt":"2021-08-26T11:55:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parleralbania.com\/site\/?p=5934"},"modified":"2021-08-26T13:55:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-26T11:55:05","slug":"mashkulli-i-forte-modeli-qe-promovon-politika","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parleralbania.com\/site\/mashkulli-i-forte-modeli-qe-promovon-politika\/","title":{"rendered":"MASHKULLI &#8220;I FORT\u00cb&#8221; \u2013 modeli q\u00eb promovon politika"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> Nga Rita Filipi <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized is-style-rounded\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/parleralbania.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/rita.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5935\" width=\"77\" height=\"77\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parleralbania.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/rita.jpg 206w, https:\/\/parleralbania.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/rita-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 77px) 100vw, 77px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Instinkti shtazarak i dhun\u00ebs shfaqet mjaft i duksh\u00ebm n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri, po shpesh prind\u00ebrit e n\u00ebnvler\u00ebsojn\u00eb at\u00eb. Nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb nga inati apo zem\u00ebrimi q\u00eb nuk e ka zot\u00ebruar dot di\u00e7ka q\u00eb mendon se i takon apo se ndihet i tradhtuar a i dhunuar nga t\u00eb rriturit, p\u00ebrdor forc\u00ebn maksimale pa asnj\u00eb kufizim apo t\u00ebrheqje, pasi i mungon arsyeja p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. T\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn forc\u00eb p\u00ebrdor f\u00ebmija edhe ndaj nj\u00eb kukulle t\u00eb cil\u00ebs mund t\u2019ia shqyej\u00eb nga trupi k\u00ebmb\u00eb e duar, t\u2019ia \u00e7aj\u00eb barkun e t\u2019ia nxjerr\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka ka brenda, pra, ta b\u00ebj\u00eb fije-fije nga nervat apo se si mund ta godas\u00eb nj\u00eb kafsh\u00eb t\u00eb gjor\u00eb q\u00eb bie n\u00eb dor\u00eb t\u00eb tij, apo kur grinden dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb mes vedi se sa fort ndodh ta kafshojn\u00eb apo g\u00ebrricin nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Kur rritemi shumica prej nesh e frenojm\u00eb veten dhe nuk biem pre e t\u00eb qenit dhunues. E disa t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebt q\u00eb n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb treguar as m\u00eb i vogli kujdes p\u00ebr t&#8217;ua zbutur zem\u00ebrimin, p\u00ebrkundrazi \u00ebsht\u00eb ushtruar dhun\u00eb ndaj tyre, kthehen n\u00eb kriminel\u00eb t\u00eb rreziksh\u00ebm. Shtoji k\u00ebtij instinkti dhe mentalitetin patriarkal se nj\u00eb mashkull &#8220;i fort\u00eb&#8221; b\u00ebn \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb doj\u00eb me pren\u00eb e vet. Shtoji dhe munges\u00ebn e logjik\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb frenimit nga shum\u00eb arsye q\u00eb lidhen me munges\u00ebn e edukimit apo nga jeta e degraduar q\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb\u2026dhe krimi q\u00eb kryejn\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb nj\u00eb vrasje momentale nga nj\u00eb err\u00ebsim sysh prej xhelozis\u00eb, pra, krim pasioni, por i shkall\u00ebs m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb t\u00eb dhunimit ndaj trupit delikat t\u00eb nj\u00eb qenie q\u00eb nuk ka asnj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb vet\u00ebmbrohet. Gjuajtja me duar dhe k\u00ebmb\u00eb (apo dhe mjete t\u00eb tjera) sikur t\u00eb q\u00ebllosh mbi nj\u00eb pla\u00e7k\u00eb e jo mbi nj\u00eb trup njeriu, p\u00ebr t\u2019i shkaktuar viktim\u00ebs dhimbje t\u00eb tmerrshme dhe d\u00ebmtime deri n\u00eb vdekje, e b\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb nj\u00eb krim shtazarak. Mashkulli \u201ci fort\u00eb\u201d \u2013 dob\u00ebsi e femrave t\u00eb dob\u00ebta Po \u00e7far\u00eb e tundon nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb, nj\u00eb engj\u00ebll t\u00eb bukur me emrin Marigona, t\u00eb vendos\u00eb t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb n\u00ebn nj\u00eb \u00e7ati me nj\u00eb mashkull t\u00eb till\u00eb? \u00c7far\u00eb i t\u00ebrheq disa vajza t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj moshe drejt k\u00ebtyre meshkujve &#8220;t\u00eb fort\u00eb&#8221;?! Mbase edukohen gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebn tek rriten me ndjesin\u00eb se jan\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebta e duhet t\u00eb gjejn\u00eb nj\u00eb mashkull \u201ct\u00eb fort\u00eb\u201d t&#8217;i mbroj\u00eb&#8230;t&#8217;i marr\u00eb n\u00ebn streh\u00ebn e tyre. Mbase familja u mbyll dyert kur ato guxojn\u00eb \u201ct\u2019ia prishin nderin\u201d; edhe \u201cshkolla\u201d dhe \u201cshoq\u00ebria\u201d i braktis. Mbase iu p\u00eblqen m\u00eb shum\u00eb vetja kur b\u00ebjn\u00eb p\u00ebr vete k\u00ebta lloj t\u00eb dashurish q\u00eb u ngjajn\u00eb si star-et e filmave policor\u00eb?! Se forca e nj\u00eb mashkulli \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb tunduese p\u00ebr femrat e dob\u00ebta, se sa intelekti i tij. Nj\u00eb mashkull i fort\u00eb kur ka para b\u00ebhet dyfish m\u00eb i fort\u00eb n\u00eb syt\u00eb e nj\u00eb vajze. Shum\u00eb modele t\u00eb tilla \u00e7iftesh \u201cvipa\u201d vajza t\u00eb bukura me djem &#8220;t\u00eb fort\u00eb&#8221; po promovohen fuqish\u00ebm n\u00eb medie dhe si rrjedhim edhe n\u00eb rrjetet sociale. Rastet e dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb komunitetin e tyre tashm\u00eb jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb zakonshme. Nd\u00ebrsa mungesa e theksuar mediatike e vajzave dhe e djemve inteligjent\u00eb, rritur n\u00eb familje mendjehapura, e personave q\u00eb shk\u00eblqejn\u00eb n\u00eb fusha t\u00eb ndryshme me aft\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe pun\u00ebn e tyre, ndodh se ata nuk kan\u00eb ndjek\u00ebs mjaftuesh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u2019u kthyer n\u00eb modele frym\u00ebzuese. Po \u00e7\u2019mund t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr tani q\u00eb Marigona dhe shum\u00eb vajza t\u00eb tjera nuk jetojn\u00eb m\u00eb?! Sigurisht q\u00eb t\u00eb zbatohet ligji dhe krimi t\u00eb d\u00ebnohet me mas\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb. Po kjo nuk mjafton. Se dhuna ndaj femrave \u00ebsht\u00eb shtuar dhe politika zhvillohet p\u00ebr vete n\u00eb nj\u00eb terren t\u00eb dhunsh\u00ebm fizik e psikik, madje duke promovuar modelin e &#8220;t\u00eb fort\u00ebve&#8221; q\u00eb i kan\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00eb. Ndaj dhuna atje lart nxit ende m\u00eb shum\u00eb dhun\u00ebn q\u00eb ndodh posht\u00eb. Sa mendohet p\u00ebr politikat sociale, mbrojtjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve apo t\u00eb femrave t\u00eb rrezikuara nga dhuna; sa qendra k\u00ebshillimi sociale apo juridike funksionojn\u00eb si duhet p\u00ebr shmangien e k\u00ebtyre rasteve, q\u00eb t\u00eb parandalojn\u00eb krime t\u00eb tilla? Sa qendra rehabilitimi funksionojn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb apo t\u00eb rriturit q\u00eb shfaqin shenja dhune? Mendoj se p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto qeverit\u00eb shqiptare n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri e Kosov\u00eb deri tani kan\u00eb investuar minimalisht. Ato jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb z\u00ebna me grindjet politike dhe investime nd\u00ebrtimesh dhe harrojn\u00eb se detyr\u00eb par\u00ebsore e tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb shembin muret p\u00ebr hap\u00ebsirat e nevojshme q\u00eb i duhen nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebrie mendjehapur.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nga Rita Filipi Instinkti shtazarak i dhun\u00ebs shfaqet mjaft i duksh\u00ebm n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri, po shpesh prind\u00ebrit e n\u00ebnvler\u00ebsojn\u00eb at\u00eb. Nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb nga inati apo zem\u00ebrimi q\u00eb nuk e ka zot\u00ebruar&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5936,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"cybocfi_hide_featured_image":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5934","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-analiza"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/parleralbania.com\/site\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5934","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/parleralbania.com\/site\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/parleralbania.com\/site\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parleralbania.com\/site\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parleralbania.com\/site\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5934"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/parleralbania.com\/site\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5934\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5937,"href":"https:\/\/parleralbania.com\/site\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5934\/revisions\/5937"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parleralbania.com\/site\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5936"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/parleralbania.com\/site\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5934"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parleralbania.com\/site\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5934"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parleralbania.com\/site\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5934"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}