\u201cNuk dua t\u00eb vdes sot e as nes\u00ebr. P\u00ebrkundrazi, n\u00ebse s\u00ebmundja ime do t\u00eb mbetej n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb faz\u00eb, n\u00ebse p\u00ebrparimi do t\u00eb ishte i ngadalsh\u00ebm n\u00eb vend t\u00eb mallkimit t\u00eb shpejt\u00eb, un\u00eb ju them, \u201cPo\u201d do t\u00eb q\u00ebndroja k\u00ebtu. Sepse e dua jet\u00ebn, sepse kam nj\u00eb burr\u00eb t\u00eb mrekulluesh\u00ebm. Por un\u00eb kam skleroz\u00ebn e shum\u00ebfisht\u00eb p\u00ebr 25 vjet dhe po p\u00ebrkeq\u00ebsohem nga muaji n\u00eb muaj. Un\u00eb e di se \u00e7far\u00eb vuajtjesh po kaloj. Ndaj dhe nj\u00eb dit\u00eb, do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb isha n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb them \u2018mjaft, do t\u00eb shkoj larg, m\u00eb ndihmo t\u00eb vdes\u2019. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse un\u00eb luftoj p\u00ebr eutanazin\u00eb e ligjshme n\u00eb Itali. Thjesht mendimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb zgjedh vet\u00eb kur t\u00eb vdes do ta b\u00ebnte dhimbjen time m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb \u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Laura Santi \u00ebsht\u00eb 46 vje\u00e7, ajo jeton n\u00eb Perugia me burrin e saj Stefano, ajo ishte nj\u00eb gazetare, i p\u00eblqente t\u00eb udh\u00ebtonte dhe t\u00eb notonte, ajo ka nj\u00eb blog t\u00eb quajtur \u201cLa vita possibile\u201d, nj\u00eb ditar i pap\u00ebrpunuar, i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, por ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb poetik dhe l\u00ebviz\u00ebs i nj\u00eb ekzistence t\u00eb sh\u00ebnuar nga \u201cajo\u201d, s\u00ebmundja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sot Laura Santi \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebshmi e referendumit p\u00ebr eutanazin\u00eb ligjore t\u00eb promovuar nga Shoqata Coscioni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Z\u00ebri i Laur\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb i fresk\u00ebt dhe i gjall\u00eb. \u201cKa disa or\u00eb t\u00eb dit\u00ebs kur un\u00eb jam n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb flas, lexoj, mendoj. Fatkeq\u00ebsisht, tani l\u00ebviz vet\u00ebm dy gishtat e m\u00ebdhenj t\u00eb duarve t\u00eb mia. Pastaj, n\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, vijn\u00eb or\u00ebt e err\u00ebsir\u00ebs, \u200b\u200bkur q\u00ebndroj pa l\u00ebvizur n\u00eb trupin tim. N\u00eb trupin tim asgj\u00eb nuk duket se d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjet m\u00eb \u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Laura, ishe 25 vje\u00e7 kur mori diagnoz\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cUn\u00eb isha nj\u00eb gazetare e pavarur, kam punuar n\u00eb organizata jofitimprur\u00ebse, kam vrapuar, nuk jam ndalur kurr\u00eb, kam pasur dit\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb ngarkuara, miq, familje. Mbaj mend q\u00eb mendoja, me gjith\u00eb pamaturin\u00eb e asaj moshe dhe nj\u00eb trup q\u00eb ende dukej i paprekur se: s\u00ebmundja nuk do t\u00eb m\u00eb prek\u00eb. Isha e bukur, e aft\u00eb dhe simptomat ishin t\u00eb lehta. N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 29 vje\u00e7 takova Stefanon, dashurin\u00eb time t\u00eb madhe \u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A nuk kishte frik\u00eb Stefano nga skleroza e shum\u00ebfisht\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cNe jemi akoma bashk\u00eb pas gati 17 vitesh dhe Stefano po vijon t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmoj\u00eb me nj\u00eb durim t\u00eb \u00e7elikt\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ai mund t\u2019ju tregoj\u00eb nj\u00eb mij\u00eb gj\u00ebra p\u00ebr rolin shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb kujdestar\u00ebve. Mbaj mend q\u00eb s\u00ebmundjen time ia thash\u00eb atij pas puthjes s\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb takimin e par\u00eb: \u201cE di, ka edhe s\u00ebmundje n\u00eb jet\u00ebn time, do t\u00eb jet\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb me mua dhe do t\u00eb p\u00ebrkeq\u00ebsohet\u201d. Por ai nuk iku<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7far\u00eb ju bashkon?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cP\u00ebrve\u00e7 dashuris\u00eb? Kultura. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb regjisor, un\u00eb shkruaj. Na bashkojn\u00eb miqt\u00eb. Sh\u00ebtitjet n\u00eb natyr\u00eb. Pavar\u00ebsisht gjith\u00e7kaje ne arrijm\u00eb t\u00eb gjejm\u00eb hap\u00ebsira qet\u00ebsie\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nga se keni hequr dor\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb? Dor\u00ebzimi juaj m\u00eb i madh?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cT\u00eb pasurit nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb. N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 30 vje\u00e7 skleroza po jepte shenjat e saj t\u00eb para, un\u00eb po filloja t\u00eb \u00e7aloja edhe pse asgj\u00eb nuk ishte n\u00eb krahasim me sot. Por at\u00ebher\u00eb kisha frik\u00eb se nuk do t\u00eb isha n\u00eb gjendje ta rrisja at\u00eb. Ishte humbja ime m\u00eb e madhe, por ndoshta ishte e drejt\u00eb \u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A ka nj\u00eb koh\u00eb kur gjith\u00e7ka ka ndryshuar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cPo. N\u00eb dhjet\u00eb muaj, nga janari deri n\u00eb tetor 2016. N\u00eb fillim t\u00eb vitit isha n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb, si n\u00eb nj\u00eb r\u00ebnie t\u00eb lir\u00eb, m\u00eb duhej shkopi, deri sa p\u00ebrfundova n\u00eb karrigen me rrota. M\u00eb tha neurologu: skleroza ka p\u00ebrparuar shum\u00eb\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb blog ajo e quajti at\u00eb moment si \u201cpik\u00eb kthese n\u00eb jet\u00ebn time si paciente\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo koha kur filluat t\u00eb mendoni p\u00ebr eutanazin\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cUn\u00eb kam qen\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb nj\u00eb mb\u00ebshtet\u00ebse e betejave t\u00eb Shoqat\u00ebs Luca Coscioni, un\u00eb besoj n\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb zgjedh vet\u00eb fundin e jet\u00ebs\u2026 Un\u00eb vet\u00ebm hodha hapin e par\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rrug\u00eb n\u00eb fillim t\u00eb vitit 2021, pasi s\u00ebmundja p\u00ebrparoi shum\u00eb m\u00eb shpejt\u2026 Dit\u00ebn psh kur zbuloni se nuk mund t\u2019i krihni m\u00eb flok\u00ebt. Ose t\u00eb vishni qoft\u00eb edhe t\u00eb brendshmet. \u00cbsht\u00eb mizore. \u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ajo ka nj\u00eb tatuazh n\u00eb ky\u00e7in e dor\u00ebs q\u00eb thot\u00eb \u201carm\u00ebpushim\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cKjo \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb ne pacient\u00ebt aspirojm\u00eb: pushim nga dhimbja, nga p\u00ebrparimi i s\u00ebmundjes, pushim nga nj\u00eb trup q\u00eb nuk na p\u00ebrgjigjet m\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ende po mendoni t\u00eb shkoni n\u00eb Zyrih?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201c\u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi, por un\u00eb do t\u00eb preferoja t\u00eb vdisja k\u00ebtu. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse un\u00eb po luftoj p\u00ebr referendumin. Le t\u00eb shpresojm\u00eb se nuk do t\u00eb zgjas\u00eb shum\u00eb. Trupi im m\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kthyer si burg. \u00c7do muaj \u00ebsht\u00eb sikur po humbas nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb trupit. Do t\u00eb vij\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb kur nuk do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb l\u00ebviz m\u00eb fare\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Burri juaj Stefano, a do t\u2019ia dal\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cAi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb njeri i fort\u00eb, me zem\u00ebr t\u00eb madhe. Ne fol\u00ebm shum\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje. Ai e di q\u00eb edhe dashuria po dor\u00ebzohet. N\u00ebna ime \u00ebsht\u00eb me mua. Ata do t\u00eb vuajn\u00eb, e di, por t\u00eb m\u00eb shohin duke vuajtur mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe m\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr ta \u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A ka nj\u00eb koh\u00eb, nj\u00eb kufi, nj\u00eb afat?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cTani p\u00ebr tani jam e lumtur, p\u00ebrs\u00ebri, t\u00eb hap syt\u00eb dhe t\u00eb jem k\u00ebtu. T\u00eb shtr\u00ebngoj dor\u00ebn e Stefanos. Nes\u00ebr kush e di. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse un\u00eb pyes: nxitoni, m\u00eb lini t\u00eb vdes n\u00eb Itali, qet\u00ebsisht dhe ligj\u00ebrisht\u201d.(\u201cLa Repubblica\u201d, <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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